No one wins in a war, but there were just wounded soldiers. This words was told buy Sun Tzu, the great chinese general more than 2000 years a go. Sun Tzu know that every war were happen, the soldiers and civilian could become a victims.
But the war not only in battlefield, maybe we always face the war around us, like we have to courage the one opinion from our side, or we have to fight for our position in our department, and many else, whatever as long it involve our emotion. Suddenly we fell very tired and drop down after that situations. We have nothing after that but injure and wounded.